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Saya Sayang Awak Lebih

Aku rasa korang semua mesti penah dengar kan ayat ni, saya sayang awak lebih (I love you more). Dalam sebuah relationship, memang akan ada satu pihak yang akan lebih menyayangi. Tak boleh tidak, mesti ada punya. Cuma dalam hal ni, apa yang terbaik? Lelaki yang lebih menyayangi atau perempuan? Pada aku, lebih baik lelaki tu.

Kenapa? Pertama sekali sebab lumrah lelaki tu sebagai pemimpin dalam relationship tu. Mana boleh kalau perempuan memimpin atau memainkan peranan sebagai boss dalam sesebuah hubungan, biarpun kadangkala dari segi ekonomi perempuan tu lebih mampu. Kalau berlaku macam tu, memang queen control dah. Lelaki mesti mengambil peranan yang penting dalam sesebuah hubungan. Kalau berselisih faham atau apa, lelakilah yang perlu bertolak ansur dulu.

Perempuan pula, kalau dia dah sayang lelaki tu memang dia sayang. Simple je sebenarnya benda ni, tapi itulah dalam hidup ni macam-macam benda boleh buatkan sesebuah hubungan tu rumit dan kadang-kadang mendatangkan masalah. Dalam sayang perempuan nilah kadang-kadang berlaku perempuan tu akan lebih menyayangi berbanding lelaki. Bila benda ni berlaku, kena ada check and balance balik sebab lelaki adalah oportunis. Bila berada dalam zon selesa macam ni, lelaki mulalah jadi tak betul. Yang gatal tu, gatallah dengan mana-mana perempuan yang dia jumpa.. yang jenis workaholic tu, kerjalah sampai pagi. Perempuan dia terabai, kurang kasi sayang.

Tapi si gadis pula memang tak nak give up. Dia fikir apa yang dia buat tak cukup bagus untuk boyfriend dia. Jadi dia berusaha lagi kuat untuk tunjukkan kasih sayang dia. Luangkan lebih banyak masa. Telefon selalu. Yang si lelaki ni pulak jadi makin rimas girlfriend asyik cari je. Tak bebas. Walaupun begitu, bila si gadis merajuk, tetap dipujuk. Lepas pujuk, dia buat perangai endah tak endah balik. Relationship tu dah jadi lain.

Banyak sebenarnya implikasi buruk kalau perempuan lebih sayang boyfriend dia. Walaupun begitu, ada je hubungan yang boleh kekal lama walaupun benda ni berlaku. Kenalah tengok jenis lelaki yang perempuan tu date. Ada je lelaki yang baik, jenis boleh dipercayai dan betul-betul ikhlas dalam hubungan tu. Tak salah pun untuk perempuan lebih menyayangi dan lebih baik sebenarnya kalau dua-dua memang komited dalam menunjukkan kasih sayang antara satu sama lain.

Macam mana nak buat si lelaki lebih sayang? Entah la.. Benda ni datang dari keikhlasan dalam bercinta tu.. kalau dia betul-betul ikhlas dan bersungguh-sungguh dalam relationship tu, memang akan nampak jelas dan nyata. Korang sendiri akan tahu. Semudah itu

...bersabarlah wahai hati,tabahlah wahai jiwa...

bismillahirrahmaanirrahim....

“ Berikan berita gembira kepada orang-orang yang sabar, iaitu orang-orang, yang ketika musibah, mereka berkata “ “Sesungguhnya kita adalah milik Allah dan Kepada-Nya kita dikembalikan. Mereka itulah yang mendapat keberkatan yang sempurna dan rahmat dari Tuhannya, dan mereka ialah orang-orang yang mendapat petunjuk”. ( Al-Baqarah : 155-157 ).


sering kali apabila kita ditimpa ujian,musibah dan sebagainya,org lain akan berkata"byk2 sabo ek,hidop ni mmg byk ujian"...kadang2 terdetik di hati "ala ckp senang r.soh sabar konon.die xrse mmg r blh ckp"...

langit x selalu cerah,mlm xselalu de bintang n hidup x selalunye indah..ana tlh diuji dgn ujian yg kadang kala menguji kesabaran n ketabahan.jp2,ni bkn nk cite psl ujian tgh tahon ke pe ye.ni adlh ujian kehidupan atau dlm erti kate lain dugaan...nk pulak dok kt negara org,mmg btol2 perit...jauh dr family,tp alhamdulillah de sahabat2 yg sgt mengambil berat...hanya ALLAH yg tau perasaan mse tu...

kadang kala kite diuji dgn bentuk kematian,kehilangan,kesakitan dan seumpamanya..tp tahukah kita sebenarnye di sebalik ujian tu tersembunyi seribu satu hikmah yg hanya dapat dilihat dgn mte hati...em...tazkirah untuk dri sendiri ni...

Rasulullah SAW bersabda : “Apa pun yang menimpa diri seorang mukmin dari kepayahan, kesakitan, kesusahan dan apa pun keresahan yang dirasakannya, melainkan Allah akan menghapuskan sebahagian dari keburukan-keburukannya.” ( HR. Muslim).

khulasahnya,apabila diri diuji dgn sesuatu yg kadang kala di luar kemampuan,itu bukanlah bermakna diri ini malang atau sebagainya.tetapi ia adalah wasilah untuk menjadikan kita lebih tabah menghadapi dunia yg penuh pancaroba kerana ALLAH maha pengasih dan penyayang dan tidak menzalimi hambaNya...

"Sungguh,Allah tidak akan menzalimi seseorang walaupun sebesar zarah,dan jika ada kebajikan(sekecil zarah),nescaya Allah akan melipat gandakannya dan memberikan pahala yang besar dari sisiNya".
(An-Nisa',ayat 40)

May 27, 2011 Gerhana Matahari or Gerhana Bulan?

Tengah hari ni dalam pukul 12.40 pm I got a call from my father, "Pergi keluar tengok matahari."
So, apa lagi I grabbed sunglasses because I know there must be something weird is going on. Lepas tu cepat-cepat shoot keluar kat halaman rumah. Sambil dongakkan kepala then perlahan-lahan I looked at the sun.. First response, takutnya... (kebesaran Allah menjadikan kita berasa sangat kecil di sisiNya...) Then, wow subhanallah! it's ECLIPSE! eh, betul ke ni? kenapa macam pelik je...

First time dalam hidup I tengok kejadian ni secara live dengan mata sendiri... Tapi ni gerhana apa ke apa eyh? I'm confused.. gerhana matahari or bulan? I called cikMerahItuSpankuning dia kata solar eclipse.. Hmmm nampak sangat ilmu sains yang belajar waktu sekolah dulu dah berkarat.. Anyway, kalau you all pun tak tahu gerhana apa pergi search google now.

jgn la korg tgk betul2 kt matahari tuh. Ye la, rosak mata owh.. randomly je.. Siapa-siapa yang tak sempat tengok kejadian ni tadi, enjoy!

Gambar-gambar ni maybe sewaktu pertengahan or akhir gerhana. cradit to kawan saya iaitu basyirah..kawan klaz sekolah dlu..

p/s : saya tertipu oleh 'ketidakpandaian' sendiri.. ni BUKAN kejadian gerhana lah! Its a natural phenomenon called 'halo' or Bahasa Melayunya dipanggil fenomena optik.. X de kena mengena pun dgn ECLIPSE! huhu pi rujuk wiki.

1st Edition feat Aizat Amdan - Perpisahan Ini Lirik

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bosan...bosan..bosan...!!

salam..
mesti korang pelik kan? cuti sem bosan? ape kejadahnye? time cuti sem la waktu paling nikmat sekali bagi pelajar2 universiti dan kolej seluruh malaysia. haha. mase untok berdansa dan bergembira sudah tiba ! tapi sume tuh bukan untok aku. cam siut ajep.

ni la 1st time cuti sem aku bosan giler weyh. damn la. haha. kesnye bukan ape pown.sbb mmg bosan je..hihi...tp d gak kebaikan cuti sem ni..sbb aq jmpe game bawu..kehkehkeh...BLACKSHOT..terbaek!..hah..tp siyes bosan...cuti sem x lame dh nk abis..x sabo nk start sem bawu ni and abiskn last sem aq..pas2 degree la jwbnyer..hihi...
p/s-pe la aq post ni...giler kowt..hah

Passing in front of someone who is praying

One time, by mistake, I told some men in a prayer room, who wanted to pray but were wating for some other men to pray so they could pass in front of them, I told them that it was okay since it was a prayer room, and we do pass in fornt of others in the masjids. But I have recently learnt that you can only pass in front of others when the congregation takes place, and otherwise you cannot and the person praying must stop the person from passing or else the person passing is a devil. I told a lot of women there this, and I am sincerly sorry for speaking without knowledge and have asked Allaah (swt) to forgive me, but I feel guilty for spreading wrong information which they might take to be true, and might even pass on to others! What can I do, and would the sin of these people come on to me? Can you please also tell me what should one do in a masjid, where people usually pass by in front of you when you are just praying normally (not in congregation)? Does this apply to the masjids at Makkah and Medinah (haram shariff) also?.

Praise be to Allaah. You should note – may Allaah forgive you – that you have committed a great sin, which is speaking about Allaah without knowledge. This is a sin which Allaah mentioned in conjunction with shirk. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Say (O Muhammad): (But) the things that my Lord has indeed forbidden are Al-Fawaahish (great evil sins and every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse) whether committed openly or secretly, sins (of all kinds), unrighteous oppression, joining partners (in worship) with Allaah for which He has given no authority, and saying things about Allaah of which you have no knowledge” [al-A’raaf 7:33]

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever introduces a good way in Islam which is followed after he dies will have a reward like that of those who did it, without that detracting from their reward in the slightest. Whoever introduces a bad way in Islam which is followed after he dies will have a burden of sin like that of those who did it, without that detracting from their burden in the slightest.” (Narrated by Muslim, 1017, from Jareer ibn ‘Abd-Allaah).

So you have to repent to Allaah and seek His forgiveness for this sin. I ask Allaah to bless you with sincere repentance.

You should also strive to put right your mistake by telling those who heard what you said before without knowledge.

With regard to the question that you mention, if someone wants to pass in front of a person who is praying, one of the following scenarios must apply:

1 – If he passes in front of the one who is praying, i.e., in the area between the spot where he puts his forehead when he prostrates and where he stands, this is haraam, and indeed it is a major sin as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If the one who passes in front of a person who is praying knew what (a burden of sin) he bears, it would be better for him to stand for forty rather than pass in front of him.” Abu’l-Nadar – one of the narrators – said: I do not know whether he said forty days or months or years. Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 510; Muslim, 507 – from Abu Juhaym (may Allaah be pleased with him).

In this case it makes no different whether the person has a sutrah (object to serve as a screen) or not.

2 – If he passes in the area that is beyond the place where he prostrates. Two scenarios may apply in this case:

(i) If the one who is praying has set up a sutrah (object to serve as a screen). In this case it is permissible to pass beyond the sutrah, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you prays, let him face towards something. If he cannot find anything, then let him set up a stick. If he cannot do that, then let him draw a line, then it will not matter if anyone passes in front of him.”

Narrated by Ahmad, 3/15; Ibn Maajah, 3063; Ibn Hibbaan, 2361. Ibn Hajar said in al-Buloogh, 249: The one who said that it is mudtarab (a kind of weak hadeeth) is not right; rather it is hasan.

And it was narrated that Talhah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If one of you puts something in front of him that is like the back of a saddle, then let him pray and not worry about anyone who passes beyond that.” Narrated by Muslim, 499.

(ii) If the one who is praying has not set up a sutrah, he has no more than the space in which he prostrates. This is the most correct scholarly opinion. It is permissible for the one who wants to pass in front of him to pass in the space beyond where he prostrates. That is because the prohibition mentioned in the hadeeth applies to passing in front of the one who is praying, and what is beyond the place where he prostrates is not counted as being in front of the one who is praying.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, after mentioning the differences of scholarly opinion concerning the distance within which the worshipper should stop anyone from passing in front of him:

The most correct opinion is that it is the distance between his feet and the place where he prostrates. That is because the one who is praying has no right to anything more than what he needs for his prayer. So he does not have the right to prevent the people from (using space) that he does not need.

Al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 3/340.

All of this has to do with one who is praying alone or is leading others in prayer. If he is a member of a congregation, then the sutrah of the imam is the sutrah for those who are behind him.

Al-Bukhaari (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Baab sutrat al-imam sutrah li man khalfahu (the sutrah of the imam is the sutrah of those who are behind him).

It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas said: Once I came riding a female donkey and had (just) attained the age of puberty. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) praying at Mina, and there was no wall in front of him. I passed in front of part of the row while they were praying. Then I let the donkey loose to graze and joined the row, and nobody objected to it. (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 76; Muslim, 504)

See al-Mughni, 2/42, 2/46

The correct scholarly view is that Makkah and other places are the same because of the general meaning of the evidence. There is nothing to suggest that Makkah is not included in this general meaning. This is the view favoured by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen. See al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 3/342.

And Allaah knows best.
(credit to mymuslim)